ambivalent

When it comes to love, we're ambivalent about "opposites attract".

说到“爱情”，我们对“异性相吸”怀有矛盾的看法。

On his way out the rabbi told me my mother was ambivalent about dying, after all those years of nagging us all to help her on her way.

在出来时，牧师告诉我说，虽然这些年来母亲一直唠叨让我们帮助她归西，但是对于死亡，她的内心还是矛盾。