abnegation

Only spontaneous love flowing with sincere generosity and self-abnegation can fertilize the soul of others.

唯有充满诚挚慷慨与自我放弃、油然而生的爱才能丰盛他者的灵魂。

It’s hard to ignore the fact that all these tools are at root about imposing limits and narrowing options—in other words, about a voluntary abnegation of freedom.

我们很难忽视这样一个事实：所有这些手段从根本上都是关于强加限制和减少选择，关于自愿地放弃自由。